Choosing an abundance mindset over a scarcity mindset allows us to be more resilient. Pessimism is nothing but a failure of imagination. A scarcity mindset is a manifestation of pessimism that makes us closed to opportunities because we view them as problems.
Some manifestations of a scarcity mindset and how it affects
our lives are as follows:
- When we believe there is not enough for everyone, including ourselves.
- When we think we must “be right” in any given situation.
- When we think asking for help is a sign of weakness.
- When we feel victimized by the actions of others, sometimes even by inanimate things.
- When we feel that nothing can help improve a situation, and it’s better to give up.
To break from a scarcity mindset and adopt an abundant
mindset, we must reprogram two key aspects:
- Our attention – what we choose to focus on
- Our intention – what we want to feel in the moment
We must redirect our attention to celebrate what is working well, instead of obsessing over what is not. Similarly, we must reorient our intention to learn, instead of being right. All this must be done and experienced, instead of just being thought about. Abundance can be visualized as something that is flowing, instead of being stagnant. Action or movement is an inherent characteristic of abundance.
Scarcity, on the other hand, is like
an addiction. It prefers the status quo and cannot be overcome purely by
thinking our way out of it.
So, how do we take small actions to help us beat the
addiction to scarcity? Let us see the actions a person who wants to reprogram
their attention and intention will take when confronted with situations of a
scarcity mindset:
Scarcity
trigger |
Reprogramming
Action |
Abundance mindset |
There is not
enough for me, let alone others |
Give
something of value without expecting anything in return |
I have more
than enough, and I can share |
I must be
‘right’ |
Ask a
question with the phrase “What do I not know that can be better?” |
I must learn.
Being ‘right’ is limiting |
I cannot ask
for help because I will become weak |
Offer help to
someone who needs it on a related or unrelated topic. |
I have
something to offer others and others have something to offer me |
I am being
victimized by the actions or existence of… |
Write down
five things you are grateful for in your day. Even include a reason you are
grateful to the person or actions that are victimizing you |
Reaffirm the
belief that there is some force in the world that is on my side |
Nothing can
help improve this situation. I should give up… |
Do the very
next task, however inconsequential it is. Then ask for help from someone,
even if they think it’s a problem too. Take an
unimportant decision and flip a coin to decide which way to do it. Follow the
coin toss, irrespective of your inclinations. |
Motivation
comes from action. Solutions are found when we see progress, however
incremental. |
Finally, a non-obvious way to reinforce abundance mindset is to
celebrate one’s quirks and uniqueness. Play is critical to help elevate our
energy levels, which can in turn put us in an optimistic and more open mindset.
Play with those who have abundant mindsets, and you will be on a path to cure
your addiction to scarcity.
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