Everyone is figuring it out as they go along, even those you think are in positions of power or are experts in their field. So don’t give yourself a hard time if you feel like you don’t know things. What’s more important is your attitude. Are you willing to make an effort irrespective of the outcome? Then you are already ahead of most who don’t make an attempt because they feel they don’t know how to do things.
If you have agency and are willing to take just two steps
beyond your doubt, you will find the next piece of the puzzle. If not, you will
learn something about what has not worked, and that is very valuable.
Reframe your attitude about failure. Welcome it. Open yourself up to it. To do this, use this easy mental trick: when things don’t go as expected, instead of saying to yourself, “I have failed,” try saying,
“I have just found a way that does not work. How lucky am I!”This way, it’s another thing you have learned. You can take corrective action.
Then take it to the next level and say to yourself,
“I have just found a way that does not work. How lucky am I! If I ask for help, collaborate, or try another action, I might find the solution.”
This little reframe will help you become an active learner.
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